【明報專訊】「娶到她,算我夠福氣。」陳和源對着相依相伴62載的太太藍麗英道出心聲。除了這對鑽石婚級的80歲長者,昨日還有25對長者「新人」一起穿著筆直西裝、披上白色婚紗,再許下愛的宣言,並分享「久婚不離」的秘訣,原來「口味相投」及忍耐尤為重要。
妻:嫌我長氣便少說幾句
陳 氏夫婦於1949年結婚,其實姻緣早於陳伯在「未來岳父」公司打工時定下。陳伯表示,當時做足「三書六禮」,是「父母之命、媒妁之言」的婚姻,「由全無感 情走到現在很不容易」,他總結過半世紀的婚姻需「口味相投」。二人平時一起閱報、晨運、逛博物館,而且同樣嗜甜,每人一日3包糖已是習慣,其實,不用吃 糖,他們已「甜到漏」。現時二人「妻洗菜,夫煮飯」,又互相提對方吃藥,甚是溫馨。雖然已是老夫老妻,他們都感激對方在自己患病時的照顧,「有一次我跌倒 弄傷腿,他很照顧我,為我塗藥酒」,陳太一臉害羞,幸福滿溢,「秘訣?大家互相遷就。他嫌我長氣,我便少說幾句」。
嚴悅勤和郭少珍相互扶持29年,二人雖常常吵架,但仍然相愛。嚴太分享一字在於「忍」及雙方有同樣的信仰。
26對長者昨日在結婚進行曲的伴奏下逐一進場,每對「新人」都表現興奮。「深情牽手人生路」之「世紀婚禮」由深水埗東長者中心聯網舉辦,為長者補辦婚禮之餘,也希望年輕夫婦珍惜眼前人。
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After reading this news, it reminded me of my grandparents, they celebrated their 60th anniversary couple of years ago as well. I wasn't there to celebrate with them coz of my studies here, but they are truly inspired and touched me in the way they live together, my grandparents truly love each other... =) I suddenly miss them very much..!
this picture was taken 1.5 year ago in Feb 2010. That day wasn't only the chinese new year but valentine's day as well. My sister and I got bouquets of roses from our sweet dad and we took this picture with our grandparents with the nice flowers. It was 1.5 year ago, realized that i didn't take much picture last time when i went back in Aug this year. should hv taken few more.
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